A study on the progression from a daughter, to sister, wife and mother. This study will cover being a sister, wife and mother.
by Mitch Kuhn, Mike Vinson
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A study of the progression revealed in the physical.
Rom 1:20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are
clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
Imagine you are living on a farm with multiple generations of your family. The women have many different roles to play all at the same time. Performing these roles is critical to the health of the family. You were created for these purposes and the more you understand and seek to fulfill these roles the more satisfied and joyful you’ll be in this life.
As the Lord takes away your life you will experience great sorrow. You will wonder who you are supposed to love when your physical family is taken away. How are you lead if you have no physical husband, or if he does not follow Christ? A man desires to work and a woman desires to love and nurture. It is necessary to see your new family and to love your new family for you to be joyful and content in this life.
1. Who is your new family?
Mat 12:48 But he answered and said unto him that told him, Who is my
mother? and who are my brethren?
Mat 12:49 And he stretched forth his hand toward his disciples, and said,
Behold my mother and my brethren!
Mat 12:50 For whosoever shall do the will of my Father which is in heaven,
the same is my brother, and sister, and mother.
Mar 10:29 And Jesus answered and said, Verily I say unto you, There is no
man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or
wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and the gospel’s,
Mar 10:30 But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life.
2. Being a Daughter
You get a new father
Joh 8:31 Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed;
Joh 8:37 I know that ye are Abraham’s seed; but ye seek to kill me,
because my word hath no place in you.
Joh 8:38 I speak that which I have seen with my Father: and ye do that
which ye have seen with your father.
Joh 8:39 They answered and said unto him, Abraham is our father. Jesus
saith unto them, If ye were Abraham’s children, ye would do the works of
Joh 8:40 But now ye seek to kill me, a man that hath told you the truth,
which I have heard of God: this did not Abraham.
Joh 8:41 Ye do the deeds of your father. Then said they to him, We be not
born of fornication; we have one Father, even God.
Joh 8:42 Jesus said unto them, If God were your Father, ye would love me:
for I proceeded forth and came from God; neither came I of myself, but he
Joh 8:43 Why do ye not understand my speech? even because ye cannot
hear my word.
Joh 8:44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will
do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth,
because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his
own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
Joh 8:45 And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.
Joh 8:46 Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I say the truth, why do
ye not believe me?
Joh 8:47 He that is of God heareth God’s words: ye therefore hear them
not, because ye are not of God.
Rom 12:18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all
Eph 1:5 Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus
Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,
2Co 6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are
the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk
in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
2Co 6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith
the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
2Co 6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and
daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
3. New Mother
Rev 17:5 And upon her forehead was a name written, MYSTERY, BABYLON
THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS AND ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.
Gen 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall
cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Mat 19:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and
shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Eph 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall
be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
Eph 5:32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the
Eph 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife
even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Rth 1:6 Then she arose with her daughters in law, that she might return
from the country of Moab: for she had heard in the country of Moab how
that the LORD had visited his people in giving them bread.
Rth 1:7 Wherefore she went forth out of the place where she was, and her
two daughters in law with her; and they went on the way to return unto the
land of Judah.
Rth 1:8 And Naomi said unto her two daughters in law, Go, return each to
her mother’s house: the LORD deal kindly with you, as ye have dealt with
the dead, and with me.
Rth 1:9 The LORD grant you that ye may find rest, each of you in the house
of her husband. Then she kissed them; and they lifted up their voice, and
Rth 1:10 And they said unto her, Surely we will return with thee unto thy
Rth 1:11 And Naomi said, Turn again, my daughters: why will ye go with
me? are there yet any more sons in my womb, that they may be your
Rth 1:12 Turn again, my daughters, go your way; for I am too old to have
an husband. If I should say, I have hope, if I should have an husband also to
night, and should also bear sons;
Rth 1:13 Would ye tarry for them till they were grown? would ye stay for
them from having husbands? nay, my daughters; for it grieveth me much
for your sakes that the hand of the LORD is gone out against me.
Rth 1:14 And they lifted up their voice, and wept again: and Orpah kissed
her mother in law; but Ruth clave unto her.
Rth 1:15 And she said, Behold, thy sister in law is gone back unto her
people, and unto her gods: return thou after thy sister in law.
Rth 1:16 And Ruth said, Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from
following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou
lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God:
Rth 1:17 Where thou diest, will I die, and there will I be buried: the LORD
do so to me, and more also, if ought but death part thee and me.
Rth 1:18 When she saw that she was stedfastly minded to go with her, then
she left speaking unto her.
You must obey your parents
Eph 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
Eph 6:2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment
Eph 6:3 That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the
Col 3:20 Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing
unto the Lord.
2Ti 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
4. Being a Sister
Rom 16:1 I commend unto you Phebe our sister, which is a servant of the
church which is at Cenchrea
Mar 3:35 For whosoever shall do the will of God, the same is my brother,
and my sister, and mother.
Jas 2:15 If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food,
Jas 2:16 And one of you say unto them, Depart in peace, be ye warmed and
filled; notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to
the body; what doth it profit?
Jas 2:17 Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.
Joh 13:35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
1Pe 3:8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another,
love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
1Jn 5:2 By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love
God, and keep his commandments.
1Jn 5:3 For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and
his commandments are not grievous.
5. Being a Wife
Eph 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the
Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head
of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Eph 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be
to their own husbands in every thing.
1Ti 3:11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful
in all things.
1Pe 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if
any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the
conversation of the wives;
1Pe 3:2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
1Pe 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the
hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
1Pe 3:4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not
corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the
sight of God of great price.
1Pe 3:5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who
trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own
1Pe 3:6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters
ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
Pro 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
Pro 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall
have no need of spoil.
Pro 31:12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
Pro 31:13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
Pro 31:14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
Pro 31:15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her
household, and a portion to her maidens.
Pro 31:16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands
she planteth a vineyard.
Pro 31:17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
Pro 31:18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth
not out by night.
Pro 31:19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the
Pro 31:20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth
her hands to the needy.
Pro 31:21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her
household are clothed with scarlet.
Pro 31:22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and
Pro 31:23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the
elders of the land.
Pro 31:24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto
Pro 31:25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in
time to come.
Pro 31:26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the
law of kindness.
Pro 31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not
the bread of idleness.
Pro 31:28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and
he praiseth her.
Pro 31:29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them
Pro 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth
the LORD, she shall be praised.
Pro 31:31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise
her in the gates.
6. Being a Mother
Mat 23:37 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and
stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy
children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings,
and ye would not!
Exo 2:9 And Pharaoh’s daughter said unto her, Take this child away, and
nurse it for me, and I will give thee thy wages. And the woman took the
child, and nursed it.
1Pe 2:2 As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may
Tit 2:3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh
holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good
Tit 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their
husbands, to love their children,
Tit 2:5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own
husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Psa 34:11 Come, ye children, hearken unto me: I will teach you the fear of
Lev 10:11 And that ye may teach the children of Israel all the statutes
which the LORD hath spoken unto them by the hand of Moses.